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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 28.06.2025 06:19

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Do not set goals—set systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What I need from you?

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Procrastinates a lot.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.